Let the truth be heard about the opposite sexes; advice from guys to girls and vice versa. With this little guide to the misteries of high school relationships, you will have a clear picture of what you should avoid while getting closer to the other person.

So girls do you know what do guys wish you knew when it comes to boy-girl relations? If you’re ready, here we go:

1. When you’re hopping up and down, screaming and clapping because you’re happy, it’s just embarrassing.

Guys don’t get the idea of going crazy about “normal stuff” by emitting high-pitched squeals and jumping around each other if something “big” happened, nor do they understand the necessity of exclamations such as OMG, yey and no way!

2. You are much prettier without all that makeup.

We’re not gonna lie, they all like pretty girls, but they also have a problem with a face that looks full-on painted. Some might even think it’s rather scary with all the black eyes and lips covered in thick lip gloss.

3. Gossiping and whispering suspiciously makes you look shallow.

Whispering, especially with the cupped hand at the other girl’s ear, is just so third grade. And gossip? “When I hear one girl talk trash about another girl, it’s like I can’t believe it,” says Brian, “like I’m in a bad movie about how mean girls are.” People talk about other people that’s true, but there’s a big difference between characterization and being mean.

4. Guys will silence your calls when they are

At a sporting event,

At the bar

Hooking up with another girl.

5. They don’t want to hear about your fat bum.

They don’t like listening to a girl’s insecurities about her body. True, some guys have issues with what a girl weighs, but they all have different tastes. Some guys like Jennifer Lopez’s type. Other guys like their girls thin as a lath. You are what you are, so talking about your body is as boring as watching paint dry…

And now let the girls talk and you guys pay attention!

1. Don’t make fun of them when you’re with your friends. Sometimes it can be funny, but it’s annoying when you do it constantly. Keep doing it and you’ll pretty much guarantee yourself no “goodies” for a while.

2. There’s nothing they hate more than being called crazy or drama queen.  No matter how much you think they overreact about their problems, they matter to them and they need you on their side to support them.

3. If it’s possible that there is anything worse than calling them crazy, it’s comparing them to other girls. Yeah, it’s a double standard that they think it’s natural to drool over any picture of Robert Pattinson, while freaking out when you make a comment about any female celeb in lingerie. You might not realize it, but they automatically compare themselves to every other girl on the planet, because it makes them think they’re not good enough.

4. Thongs are really uncomfortable. You may think they are totally sexy, but they hurt.

5. Even if you guys say you like them better dressed normally with no makeup, wearing makeup and dressing up makes them feel pretty and gives them more confidence, so at least reward the hard work they do to make themselves look good by telling them so.

Knowledge is power and now you have the key in your hands for a fresh start!

So ladies and gentlemen… heads up, chest out, be proud!

We’ll be waiting for you to voice your opinions!